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EP 105: How to Work with Two Withdrawers in Emotionally Focused Therapy with EFT Trainer Dr. Tal Padeh

Welcome back to We Heart Therapy: The EFT Talk Series! 💕

 

In this powerful episode, host Dr. Anabelle Bugatti, PhD, LMFT, Certified EFT Supervisor & Therapist, sits down with Dr. Tal Padeh, Certified EFT Trainer and Director of the Israeli Center for EFT, to discuss one of the most challenging and insightful topics in couples therapy — working with two withdrawers in session.

If you’ve ever struggled with helping two withdrawn partners open up and engage emotionally, this conversation is for you. Dr. Padeh and Dr. Bugatti explore how EFT principles can guide therapists to create safety, connection, and movement, even when both partners retreat from vulnerability.

 

💬 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

Why working with two withdrawers can feel especially tricky in EFT sessions

How to identify withdrawal dynamics and attachment fears

Key strategies to help each partner re-engage emotionally

Real clinical insights from Dr. Padeh’s experience in the Israeli EFT community

How to stay attuned and grounded as a therapist when both partners pull away

 

🎓 Perfect for: Therapists, counselors, psychologists, and anyone interested in deepening their understanding of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and attachment-based approaches to couples therapy.

 

📚 RESOURCES & LINKS MENTIONED

 

🔹 Get Dr. Anabelle Bugatti’s Book:

📖 Using Relentless Empathy in the Therapeutic Relationship: Connecting with Challenging and Resistant Clients

👉 https://a.co/d/22xAUpl

 

🔹 Learn More About EFT Training:

Visit the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT) to explore training opportunities:

🌐 https://iceeft.com

 

🔹 Connect with Dr. Tal Padeh:

🌐 https://www.eftisrael.com

📧 Email: tal@eftisrael.com

 

🔹 Visit Dr. Anabelle Bugatti’s Website:

https://www.DrBelle.com

https://www.snveft.com

🌐 https://www.wehearttherapy.com

EP 104: Healing Addiction, Shame & Trauma with EFT | Dr. Belle & EFT Trainer Michael Barnett LPC

EFT Talk: Your Guide to Emotionally Focused Therapy 🎙️

💙 Featuring Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT, Cert. EFT Supervisor & Therapist

 

✨ Healing Addictions, Shame & Trauma with Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) | Dr. Belle & Michael Barnett LPC

 

In this powerful conversation, I, Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT, ICEEFT Certified EFT/EFIT/EFFT Supervisor/Therapist, sit down with Michael Barnett, LPC — EFT Trainer, Supervisor, and author of The Emotionally Focused Therapy Workbook for Addiction to explore how Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) can be a transformative path for healing addictions, shame, and trauma.

 

👉 Whether you're a therapist, mental health professional, or someone seeking healing, this discussion will provide valuable insights into:

• How EFT helps clients move from shame to self-compassion
• The role of attachment and bonding in recovery
• Using EFT to support lasting healing from trauma and addiction
• Practical steps and tools from Michael’s new EFT Workbook for Addiction

 

📘 Get Michael Barnett’s New EFT Workbook for Addiction: Emotionally Focused Therapy Workbook for Addiction (Amazon) https://www.amazon.com/Emotionally-Fo...

 

🔗 Resources from Dr. Belle

🌐 My Therapy & EFT Training Websites:

https://WeHeartTherapy.com CE Events & Podcast

https://DrBelle.com Professional Site for Dr. Belle

https://LasVegasMarriageCounseling.com Marriage & Couples Counseling

https://snveft.com - Southern Nevada EFT Community

 

📘 My Book – Relentless Empathy (By Anabelle Bugatti, PhD): https://www.amazon.com/Relentless-Emp...

 

✨ About Your Host – Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT

I’m an ICEEFT Certified EFT/EFIT/EFFT Supervisor/Therapist, and I create content to help therapists and individuals discover the power of Emotionally Focused Therapy for healing, connection, and transformation.

 

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💬 Comment below — What’s one takeaway about EFT and healing that resonated with you most?

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#EFT #AddictionRecovery #TraumaHealing #Shame #EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #MichaelBarnett #DrBelle #RelentlessEmpathy #TherapistResources

EP 103: What to Do When Clients Say “I Don’t Know” EFT Tips with EFT Trainer Lieven Migerode

What to Do When Clients Say “I Don’t Know” EFT Tips with Lieven Migerode

 

Welcome back to We Heart Therapy, the channel for Emotionally Focused Therapists seeking practical tools and insights!

 

In this episode, host Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT — Certified EFT/EFIT/EFFT Supervisor & Therapist — speaks with Lieven Migerode, Certified EFT Trainer from Belgium, about how to work effectively when clients frequently respond with “I don’t know” during emotional exploration.

 

We discuss why this happens, how to understand it through an attachment lens, and what interventions can help clients access and express their deeper emotional experience.

 

🔗 Learn more about Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): https://www.iceeft.com

 

For more information on our special guest Lieven Migerode:

🔗 Lieven Migerode’s Website: https://www.eft-belgium.org

 

📘 Dr. Belle’s Book – “Relentless Empathy” Buy on Amazon: https://a.co/d/2EM78Vj

 

👩‍⚕️ About the Host - Dr. Belle (Anabelle Bugatti), PhD, LMFT

https://www.DrBelle.com

https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin...

https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com

https://www.SNVEFT.com

 

If you found this video helpful, please like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell so you don’t miss future EFT training content!

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EP 102: How to Use EFT/EFIT in Group Therapy - Featuring EFT Trainer Dr. Andrea Pagani

Welcome back to We Heart Therapy, the mental health podcast for Emotionally Focused Therapists!

In this episode, Dr. Belle (PhD, LMFT) speaks with Dr. Andrea Pagani, Certified EFT Trainer based in Rome, Italy, about how to apply Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) in group therapy settings.

Dr. Pagani shares insights into adapting EFT principles to group dynamics, helping therapists support individuals in a relational healing process even within a group format.

This is an invaluable conversation for anyone working in EFIT or exploring the intersection of individual and group therapeutic work through an attachment lens.

🔗 Learn more about EFT and EFIT training:

https://www.iceeft.com

🔗 Dr. Andrea Pagani’s EFT communities:

https://www.eftitaliacommunity.com

https://www.eftroma.com

📘 Check out Dr. Belle’s book: “Relentless Empathy”

Buy on Amazon: https://a.co/d/2EM78Vj

👩‍⚕️ About the Host - Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT

https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com

https://www.DrBelle.com

https://www.SNVEFT.com

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss an episode designed to help you grow in your EFT journey!

 

 

#EFT #EFIT #GroupTherapy #EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #Attachment #MentalHealth #TherapistTraining #WeHeartTherapy #RelentlessEmpathy

EP 101: Working with View of Self in EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy - Featuring EFT Trainer Robin Williams Blake

🎙️ Working with View of Self in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

with Dr. Belle (Anabelle Bugatti-Duarte, PhD, LMFT) & Robin Williams Blake, EFT Trainer & Director of the Toronto Centre for EFT

Welcome to another transformative episode of the We Heart Therapy podcast & YouTube series for EFT therapists!

In this episode, Dr. Belle sits down with renowned EFT Trainer Robin Williams Blake to explore the important and powerful topic of working with View of Self and View of Other in EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy. Learn how the way clients see themselves—shaped by attachment wounds, past emotional experiences, and current relational patterns—impacts their emotional responses, connection struggles, and healing process.

🔍 We cover:

• What “View of Self” (VOS) really means in the EFT model
• How to identify and work with negative self-perceptions in session
• Key interventions and markers for effective restructuring
• Using the EFT tango to access and shift self-view
• How attachment and self-concept intertwine in therapy

This conversation is packed with clinical gems, theory-to-practice insights, and gentle reminders of the deep humanity behind our clients’ struggles.

👥 Whether you're an EFT therapist-in-training or a seasoned practitioner, this episode will enrich your understanding and sharpen your skills for deep, lasting change in your sessions.

💬 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more expert content on EFT, attachment science, and therapeutic change.

For official information on EFT:

https://www.iceeft.com

https://www.DrSuejohnson.com

🔗 Connect with our guests:

Dr. Belle's Website:

https://www.drbelle.com,

https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin...

And for Exciting new CE events hosted by We Heart Therapy, https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com

Robin Williams Blake's Website: www.robinwilliamsblake.com

Email Robin: Robin@robinwilliamsblake.com

‪@robinwilliamsblake9911‬

 

 

#EFT #EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #ViewOfSelf #Attachment #EFTTherapists #CouplesTherapy #WeHeartTherapy #DrBelle #RobinWilliamsBlake #TherapistPodcast #EFTTraining

EP 100: Attachment Based Suicide Assessment in EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy - Featuring EFT Trainer Rachel Thomas

In this powerful episode of the We Heart Therapy Youtube Channel and podcast, on our series EFT Talk, host Dr. Belle (Anabelle Bugatti aka Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT) is joined by certified AZ EFT Trainer Rachel Thomas, LMFT, to explore Attachment-Based Suicide Assessment within the framework of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).

 

🎙️ Together we delve into:

• How attachment theory informs suicide risk assessment
• Differentiating emotional distress from suicide ideation
• The power of secure bonding in preventing suicidal crises
• Tools for EFT therapists to navigate high-risk moments with sensitivity and clarity

If you're a mental health clinician or therapist practicing EFT, this episode provides essential clinical insight into working with clients struggling with suicidal thoughts through an attachment-focused lens.

🧠 Learn how to stay connected, attuned, and effective—even in the most challenging moments.

🔔 Subscribe to We Heart Therapy for more cutting-edge EFT conversations:    / @wehearttherapy  

 

📍 Connect with Rachel Thomas, LMFT:

https://www.TherapyWithHeart.com

Email Rachel Thomas at: Rachel@therapywithheart.com

 

📍 Connect with Dr. Belle: https://www.wehearttherapy.com

Instagram: @drbelleeftguru

LinkedIn: Anabelle Bugatti

 

📚 Interested in EFT trainings and CEs?

Visit our site for upcoming events and resources!

https://www.iceeft.com

https://www.snveft.com

 

#EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #EFT #SuicideAssessment #AttachmentTheory #WeHeartTherapy #MentalHealthPodcast #DrBelle #RachelThomas #TherapistTools #LMFT #SuicidePrevention #AttachmentInTherapy

EP 99: How to Think Systemically in EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy - Featuring EFT Trainer Dr. Simona Herb

In this episode of *We Heart Therapy*, join host Dr. Belle, aka Anabelle Bugatti, PhD, LMFT (Certified EFT Supervisor/Therapist), as she welcomes special guest Dr. Simona Herb, EFT Trainer from Romania. Together, they explore how to think systemically in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) —a crucial perspective for therapists working with couples, families and relationships.

 

👉 Learn how systemic thinking enhances your EFT practice and deepens emotional connection in therapy.

 

✨ *Special Guest: Dr. Simona Herb, EFT Trainer in Romania*

🔗 [Visit Dr. Simona Herb’s Website] https://eftromania.ro/en/trainers/sim...

Email Dr. Simona Herb: Simona.Herb@gmail.com

 

✨ *Host: Dr. Anabelle Bugatti ("Dr. Belle")*

🔗 [Visit Dr. Belle’s Website] https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin...

or https://www.DrBelle.com

or https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com

 

✨ 🔹 To Sign up for We Heart Therapy CE Events, visit: https://www.wehearttherapy.com/therap...

 

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EP 98: The Importance of Playfulness with Emily Nagoski

In this enlightening episode of We Heart Therapy, host Dr. Anabelle Bugatti, PhD, LMFT, Certified EFT Supervisor & Therapist, and author of *Using Relentless Empathy in the Therapeutic Relationship*, engages in a compelling discussion with Sex Educator and best-selling author Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., on "The Importance of Playfulness." Together, they delve into how incorporating playfulness can enhance emotional connections and is essential to overall health and well-being.

Emily Nagoski is an award-winning author and renowned sex educator with a Ph.D. in Health Behavior and a minor in Human Sexuality from Indiana University. She began her career as a peer health educator at the University of Delaware and has served as the Director of Wellness Education at Smith College. Emily is dedicated to teaching women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies, combining sex education and stress education in her work. Her notable publications include the New York Times bestseller Come As You Are and *Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle*, co-authored with her sister, Amelia Nagoski. Her latest book, *Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections*, was published in January 2024.

Learn more about Emily Nagoski and her work:

• Official Website: [https://www.emilynagoski.com](https://www.emilynagoski.com)

Explore Emily's acclaimed books:

• Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
• Purchase: [https://www.amazon.com/Come-As-You-Ar...](https://www.amazon.com/Come-As-You-Ar...)
• Audiobook: [https://www.audible.com/pd/Come-As-Yo...](https://www.audible.com/pd/Come-As-Yo...)
• Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle
• Purchase: [https://www.amazon.com/Burnout-Secret...](https://www.amazon.com/Burnout-Secret...)
• Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections
• Purchase: [https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/bo...](https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/bo...)

*Discover Dr. Anabelle Bugatti's work:*

• Using Relentless Empathy in the Therapeutic Relationship: Connecting with Challenging and Resistant Clients
• Purchase: [https://www.amazon.com/Using-Relentle...](https://www.amazon.com/Using-Relentle...)

*Visit Dr. Belle's (Anabelle Bugatti) websites:*

• We Heart Therapy: [https://www.wehearttherapy.com](https://www.wehearttherapy.com)
• Dr. Belle's Professional Site: [https://www.drbelle.com](https://www.drbelle.com)

-Work with Dr. Belle: https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin...

For EFT Training and Information please visit:

https://www.iceeft.com

https://www.drsuejohnson.com

https://www.snveft.com

Don't miss this opportunity to gain valuable insights into the role of playfulness in fostering deeper relationships and personal growth.

EP 97: Using L'TEMPO to Track the Negative Cycle in EFT - Featuring EFT Trainer Dr. James Hawkins, aka Doc Hawk

Welcome to We Heart Therapy! In this episode, join Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT, ICEEFT Certified EFT Supervisor & Therapist, and special guest Dr. James Hawkins (aka "Doc Hawk"), PhD, LPC, ICEEFT Certified EFT Trainer, as they explore the acronym L'TEMPO—a practical tool for assembling elements of emotional experience to effectively track the negative cycle in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).

Whether you're a seasoned mental health professional or just starting your journey in EFT, this conversation offers actionable insights to refine your skills and deepen your understanding of the cycle-tracking process. Gain practical tools to enhance your effectiveness in therapy sessions, and learn from the combined expertise of two passionate leaders in the EFT community.

Dr. Hawkins, a co-host of The Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy podcast and co-creator of the Success in Vulnerability online learning platform, brings his wealth of experience and a collaborative spirit to this engaging discussion with host Dr. Belle, a trusted community leader in the Southern NV EFT Community in Las Vegas.

 

✨ What You'll Learn in This Video:

The meaning and application of the L'TEMPO acronym in EFT sessions

How to assemble and connect emotional experiences to track the negative cycle

Practical tips for sharpening your EFT skills as a therapist

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell to stay updated on all things EFT!

 

💡 Additional Resources: 📚

Check out Doc Hawk's website: https://www.DocHawkLPC.com

And the EFT learning platform: https://www.SuccessinVulnerability.com

🎙️ Listen to the Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy podcast: https://theleadingedgeineft.podbean.com/

 

🔗 Follow Us:

🌐 Dr. Belle's Website:

https://www.lasvegasmarriagecounselin...

https://www.DrBelle.com

and to learn more about CE Events hosted by We Heart Therapy visit: https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com

📖 Learn more about EFT: https://www.ICEEFT.com

 

#EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #EFT #TherapistResources #DrBelle #DocHawk #WeHeartTherapy #LTempo

EP 96: Attuning to High Reactivity using EFT - Featuring EFT Trainers George Faller & Giulia Altera

Managing heightened emotions and reactivity in couples therapy can be challenging, but this conversation provides essential strategies for maintaining attunement, de-escalating intense interactions, and fostering connection in the therapy room. Whether you're an experienced EFT practitioner or new to the model, this episode will enrich your skills in navigating these complex dynamics.

✨ What You'll Learn in This Video:

Effective techniques for attuning to heightened reactivity

Tools for managing escalated couples using EFT principles

Insights on creating safety and connection in high-conflict sessions

Dr. Giulia Altera shares her expertise in working with couples across cultures, while George Faller offers wisdom from his extensive experience as a therapist, trainer, and educator. Dr. Belle moderates this dynamic discussion, bringing her passion and expertise to support EFT therapists in building confidence and competence.

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more content designed to inspire and empower EFT professionals!

💡 Additional Resources:

📚 Learn more from Dr. Giulia Altera:

https://www.eftitaliacommunity.com/en...

https://eft-norditalia.com/la-eft/tra...

Follow Giulia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/giulia_alte...

📚 Learn more from George Faller: Success in Vulnerability: https://successinvulnerability.com/

🎙️ Listen to Foreplay Radio Podcast: Foreplay Radio https://www.foreplayrst.com/

🔗 Follow your host Dr. Belle @ We Heart Therapy:

🌐 Dr. Belle's Website: https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin... and https://www.DrBelle.com

For EFT CE Retreats hosted by Dr. Belle @ We Heart Therapy, visit: https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com

📖 Learn more about EFT: https://www.ICEEFT.com

 

#EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #EFT #TherapistResources #DrBelle #GeorgeFaller #GiuliaAltera #WeHeartTherapy #HighlyEscalatedCouples #CouplesTherapy @WeHeartTherapy