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We Heart Therapy is a channel about Therapy, Wellness and life from a therapist, coach and relationship Expert, Dr. Anabelle Bugatti. This channel features podcast on how to live a better life, have successful relationships, and discusses different types of therapy available so that you know which is the best fit for you. Make sure to check us out on YouTube at We Heart Therapy.
We Heart Therapy is a channel about Therapy, Wellness and life from a therapist, coach and relationship Expert, Dr. Anabelle Bugatti. This channel features podcast on how to live a better life, have successful relationships, and discusses different types of therapy available so that you know which is the best fit for you. Make sure to check us out on YouTube at We Heart Therapy.
Episodes

Wednesday Mar 18, 2026
Wednesday Mar 18, 2026
Welcome back to We Heart Therapy — your go-to channel for deep, experiential learning in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT — ICEEFT Certified EFT/EFIT/EFFT Supervisor & Therapist and EFT Community Leader for Southern NV EFT — sits down with Ali Barbosa, ICEEFT Certified EFT Trainer from the Mexico Center for EFT, to explore an essential question for every therapist: 👉 How do we apply EFT and EFIT to ourselves?
As therapists, we’re trained to guide others through emotional pain and attachment injuries — but what about our own? In this conversation, you’ll learn:
✨ How to walk in the EFT model in your own life
✨ Applying EFIT (Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy) strategies to your personal emotional experiences
✨ How to work with your own attachment system, triggers, and emotional pain
✨ Tools for self-reflection, emotional processing, and self-compassion
✨ How your personal work deepens your clinical effectiveness
✨ Why embodying EFT transforms not just your work — but your relationships
This episode is especially meaningful for EFT therapists who want to move beyond technique and into embodied practice — integrating the model into both their professional and personal lives.
Whether you're in Core Skills, working toward certification, or already certified, this conversation offers practical guidance and heartfelt insight into becoming the therapist who truly lives EFT.
🔗 Learn Emotionally Focused Therapy & Certification (ICEEFT): https://iceeft.com
🔗 Ali Barbosa – Mexico Center for EFT: https://eftmexico.com/
🔗 Southern NV EFT (Dr. Belle): https://www.snveft.com
🔗 Dr. Belle’s Professional Website: https://www.DrBelle.com
👍 If this video resonates, please like, subscribe, and share with fellow therapists.
#EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #EFTTherapists #EFIT #ICEEFT #TherapistGrowth #AttachmentTheory #WeHeartTherapy #SelfOfTheTherapist

Tuesday Feb 17, 2026
Tuesday Feb 17, 2026

Tuesday Jan 27, 2026
Tuesday Jan 27, 2026
Welcome to We Heart Therapy – The EFT Talk Series, where we explore the heart of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) through meaningful conversations with leaders in the field.
In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Senem Zeytinoğlu, ICEEFT Certified EFT Trainer and Founder of the Turkey Center for EFT in Istanbul, for a rich and thoughtful discussion on Self of the Therapist (SOT) issues in EFT Supervision—and why this work is essential for ethical, effective, and emotionally present EFT practice.
Self of the Therapist work helps EFT therapists understand how their own attachment histories, emotional triggers, and nervous system responses show up in clinical work and supervision. Dr. Zeytinoğlu shares how attending to SOT deepens therapist resilience, strengthens the therapeutic alliance, and ultimately leads to better outcomes for couples and individuals.
🎙️ In This EFT Talk Episode, We Explore:
- What Self of the Therapist (SOT) means in the context of EFT supervision
- Why SOT work is essential—not optional—in EFT training and supervision
- How therapists’ attachment patterns can show up in sessions and supervision
- The role of safety, compassion, and emotional presence in supervisory relationships
- How EFT supervisors can support growth without shame or judgment
- Why SOT work supports therapist sustainability and prevents burnout
This episode is especially valuable for EFT therapists, supervisors, trainers, and therapists who want to deepen their work, increase self-awareness, and practice EFT with greater clarity and confidence.
📚 RESOURCES & LINKS:
🇹🇷 Connect with Dr. Senem Zeytinoğlu:
Turkey Center for EFT (Istanbul)
📧 Email: senemzeytinoglu@gmail.com
📘 Buy My Book Using Relentless Empathy in the Therapeutic Relationship: Connecting with Challenging and Resistant Clients on Amazon:
Learn More About Dr. Sue Johnson's official EFT Training (ICEEFT): The International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT)
💻 For Official EFT Training Events held in Las Vegas:
💻 Visit My Website – Anabelle Bugatti, PhD, LMFT aka Dr.Belle:
www.LasVegasMarriageCounseling.com
💻 Visit We Heart Therapy and attend CE Events:

Thursday Jan 01, 2026
Thursday Jan 01, 2026
EFT Certification Updates with Gail Palmer | EFT Talk with Dr. Belle
Curious about how to become certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy? In this episode of We Heart Therapy, Dr. Belle—PhD, LMFT, ICEEFT Certified Supervisor/Therapist and President of Southern NV EFT—welcomes Gail Palmer, ICEEFT Co-Founder and global leader in Emotionally Focused Family Therapy (EFFT) to discuss updates in the Certification process.
Together, they unpack the latest updates on EFT certification, including what's new in EFIT (Individual), EFCT (Couples), and EFFT (Family Therapy). Whether you're just beginning your EFT journey or working toward certification, this candid and insightful conversation offers clarity and encouragement straight from the experts.
🔗 Helpful Links:
🌐 ICEEFT Official Site: https://iceeft.com
🌐 Dr. Belle's Official Site: https://www.DrBelle.com
🌐 Southern NV EFT: https://southernnveft.com
🌐 Gail Palmer’s Trainer Profile: https://iceeft.com/trainers/gail-palmer/
Gailpalmer53 @ hotmail.com ❤️
If this episode inspired you, please like, subscribe, and share with fellow therapists.
#EFTCertification #EFTTraining #EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #DrBelle #GailPalmer #EFIT #EFCT #EFFT #ICEEFT #TherapistEducation

Monday Oct 20, 2025
Monday Oct 20, 2025

Tuesday Sep 02, 2025
Tuesday Sep 02, 2025
- How EFT helps clients move from shame to self-compassion
- The role of attachment and bonding in recovery
- Using EFT to support lasting healing from trauma and addiction
- Practical steps and tools from Michael’s new EFT Workbook for Addiction

Monday Aug 11, 2025
Monday Aug 11, 2025

Saturday Jun 28, 2025
Saturday Jun 28, 2025
Welcome back to We Heart Therapy, the mental health podcast for Emotionally Focused Therapists!
In this episode, Dr. Belle (PhD, LMFT) speaks with Dr. Andrea Pagani, Certified EFT Trainer based in Rome, Italy, about how to apply Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) in group therapy settings.
Dr. Pagani shares insights into adapting EFT principles to group dynamics, helping therapists support individuals in a relational healing process even within a group format.
This is an invaluable conversation for anyone working in EFIT or exploring the intersection of individual and group therapeutic work through an attachment lens.
🔗 Learn more about EFT and EFIT training:
🔗 Dr. Andrea Pagani’s EFT communities:
https://www.eftitaliacommunity.com
📘 Check out Dr. Belle’s book: “Relentless Empathy”
Buy on Amazon: https://a.co/d/2EM78Vj
👩⚕️ About the Host - Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT
https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com
Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss an episode designed to help you grow in your EFT journey!
#EFT #EFIT #GroupTherapy #EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #Attachment #MentalHealth #TherapistTraining #WeHeartTherapy #RelentlessEmpathy

Sunday May 25, 2025
Sunday May 25, 2025
🎙️ Working with View of Self in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
with Dr. Belle (Anabelle Bugatti-Duarte, PhD, LMFT) & Robin Williams Blake, EFT Trainer & Director of the Toronto Centre for EFT
Welcome to another transformative episode of the We Heart Therapy podcast & YouTube series for EFT therapists!
In this episode, Dr. Belle sits down with renowned EFT Trainer Robin Williams Blake to explore the important and powerful topic of working with View of Self and View of Other in EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy. Learn how the way clients see themselves—shaped by attachment wounds, past emotional experiences, and current relational patterns—impacts their emotional responses, connection struggles, and healing process.
🔍 We cover:
- What “View of Self” (VOS) really means in the EFT model
- How to identify and work with negative self-perceptions in session
- Key interventions and markers for effective restructuring
- Using the EFT tango to access and shift self-view
- How attachment and self-concept intertwine in therapy
This conversation is packed with clinical gems, theory-to-practice insights, and gentle reminders of the deep humanity behind our clients’ struggles.
👥 Whether you're an EFT therapist-in-training or a seasoned practitioner, this episode will enrich your understanding and sharpen your skills for deep, lasting change in your sessions.
💬 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more expert content on EFT, attachment science, and therapeutic change.
For official information on EFT:
🔗 Connect with our guests:
Dr. Belle's Website:
https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin...
And for Exciting new CE events hosted by We Heart Therapy, https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com
Robin Williams Blake's Website: www.robinwilliamsblake.com
Email Robin: Robin@robinwilliamsblake.com
#EFT #EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #ViewOfSelf #Attachment #EFTTherapists #CouplesTherapy #WeHeartTherapy #DrBelle #RobinWilliamsBlake #TherapistPodcast #EFTTraining

Wednesday May 07, 2025
Wednesday May 07, 2025
In this powerful episode of the We Heart Therapy Youtube Channel and podcast, on our series EFT Talk, host Dr. Belle (Anabelle Bugatti aka Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT) is joined by certified AZ EFT Trainer Rachel Thomas, LMFT, to explore Attachment-Based Suicide Assessment within the framework of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
🎙️ Together we delve into:
- How attachment theory informs suicide risk assessment
- Differentiating emotional distress from suicide ideation
- The power of secure bonding in preventing suicidal crises
- Tools for EFT therapists to navigate high-risk moments with sensitivity and clarity
If you're a mental health clinician or therapist practicing EFT, this episode provides essential clinical insight into working with clients struggling with suicidal thoughts through an attachment-focused lens.
🧠 Learn how to stay connected, attuned, and effective—even in the most challenging moments.
🔔 Subscribe to We Heart Therapy for more cutting-edge EFT conversations:
/ @wehearttherapy
📍 Connect with Rachel Thomas, LMFT:
https://www.TherapyWithHeart.com
Email Rachel Thomas at: Rachel@therapywithheart.com
📍 Connect with Dr. Belle: https://www.wehearttherapy.com
Instagram: @drbelleeftguru
LinkedIn: Anabelle Bugatti
📚 Interested in EFT trainings and CEs?
Visit our site for upcoming events and resources!
#EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #EFT #SuicideAssessment #AttachmentTheory #WeHeartTherapy #MentalHealthPodcast #DrBelle #RachelThomas #TherapistTools #LMFT #SuicidePrevention #AttachmentInTherapy
